Why is it that anytime I try to talk about a problem I'm having, people always tell me I'm whining?

Im glad youre seeing a counsellor. The problem with sites like this is that for every caring person on here, there are half a dozen who really dont care what your problems are. So its best not to let people like that upset you. I hope you can move out as soon as possible and Im sorry there isnt any more I can tell you.