Unnattractive flamers that wont stop bugging you..?

Tell him straight up that it makes you uncomfortable and it is inappropriate especially in the work place. You have the right to your space so just say how you feel. I disagree totally about the "high horse" thing sometimes you just know when you're out of someone's league and that isn't always based on looks alone. You might consider yourself out of his league mainly because he is throwing himself at you in such a trashy way I dont blame you. Just tell him to back off bottom line!